Right on the Edge of Hinky with Wendi Zwaduk

I happened to be talking to a friend of mine. The conversation had me in stitches because of something he said. My friend said he’d read all my books and was thrilled that I’d written a book with MM and BDSM.  My DH said, well, you don’t think she does that? She’s not a guy. Of course my friend laughed and replied, duh. Now that wasn’t what made me laugh, it was what he said next.

“You’re right on the edge of hinky.”

I laughed and agreed with him. I am. I’m not getting the publicity of say, that popular book, but mine have just as much kink in them. So yeah, I’m on the edge of hinky.
He laughed at me for agreeing. “So do you do that stuff?”

I grinned and said nothing.

“Do you?”

I might write kink and I might take part in such things, but I’m not going to blurt out all the things I do in the bedroom. I’d like to think I’ve got some decorum.

But here’s the thing, whether you get into kink or not and whether you decide to talk about it is up to you. More power to you. I look at it this way, as long as there’s respect and you’re both getting pleasure, more power to you.

Is there anything wrong with being on the edge of hinky? Nope. Well, within reason. Let me explain. I’m not going to condone all kinks. There are some I just don’t get and others that do nothing for me. Doesn’t mean they are wrong (unless they are against the law – but that’s a whole ‘nother post), it just means they aren’t my kink. But that also doesn’t mean that being spanked or playing with sex toys is wrong.  Hey, whatever works (still that pesky within reason).

I’m proud to admit I’m on the edge of hinky. I write about sex, bdsm, spanking, toys, ménages and I don’t hide that fact. I like to read such books, too. If you are proud to admit the same, let me know.




Here’s a little bit about my forthcoming recent historical, Sunshine of Your Love
It’s 1970. The world is in upheaval. Can two people really make a difference and find love at the same time?
Noel Flynt signed up for the Army to carry out his family duty. He never expected the travesties of Vietnam to take their toll on him. He’s coming back to the world he thought he knew. With everything changing around him, he’s going to have to learn he can’t live in the past.
Cindy Stephens couldn’t wait for Noel to return. She sees the man within the uniform and has loved him for as long as she can remember. But times have changed. She’s not the timid school girl any longer. Can she accept his changes, too?


Available soon at Total e-bound

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Want to know more about Wendi Zwaduk? Here you go:
I always dreamt of writing the stories in my head. Tall, dark, and handsome heroes are my favorites, as long as he has an independent woman keeping him in line. I earned a BA in education at Kent State University and currently hold a Masters in Education with Nova Southeastern University.
I love NASCAR, romance, books in general, Ohio farmland, dirt racing, and my menagerie of animals. I’m published with Total-E-Bound, Changeling Press, Liquid Silver Books, Turquoise Morning Press and The Wild Rose Press. Come join me for this fantastic journey!

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This Post Has 2 Comments

  1. Great post! I used to feel a little funny about telling people I read them. Now, I am always telling my friends about books that I read and enjoyed. I also read little excerpts to my hubby. He finds it amusing.
    So, I guess I am proud! 😉
    Thank you for sharing, Wendi.

  2. Hi!
    Enjoyed your post and must say I totally agree with you. I love most erotics that I read. Many people I encounter, read them also & enjoy them- they just don’t feel right admitting the pleasure of good, hot, sometimes kinky sex! Give me some hot reads, you know the ones that melt your candles!!

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